Sep 16
Bucket list
I sorta friend of mine (more a friend of my husbands) posted a bucket list the other day and it got me thinking a lot about what I really want accomplished before I “go back to the mud”.
Before I dive into that I’d like to take a moment to talk about the friend. Her and I have know each other a really long time, but we never became friends. We were always on “opposing sides” in pretty much every “click” we were associated with. I was never really into the party scene, and am still not, so our mutual friends never got to put us in the same space and hope for the best.
She showed me a great kindness once and it was never forgotten, but despite the many attemps of mutal accosiates and friends (my husband included) telling me we would get along really well I could not get myself to approach her in a friendly until the recent passing of one of the people that connected us. I think about why, and mostly I am loyal to a fault to the ones I love and care about. I was blindly loyal to another friend who clashed greatly with her. Now in our late 20’s my dear friends passing brought us together, and I owe her a thank you.
Bucket list:
1. Amarah.
2. Have a home large enough to appease my heart. My heart is always bigger then my home and I’m sick of it.
3. Live in 3 other countries for at least 2 years each. Culture shock is good for a growing mind.
4. Have at least 1 family gathering that includes EVERYONE without their being an issues or absenteeism.
5. To quit smoking successfully. side-note for myself later - try ditching coffee too.
6. Have wolves, maybe even run/help with a reservation.
7. Have at least 5 extended adventures with my just my sister.
8. Have a major adventure with just Dave at least 8 times.
9. Take my sister to a concert of her choosing.
10. Have time for various art development.
unfinished…
